I don't know what to say anymore, people forget so fast, and I know that's normal but family shouldn't.  When do you get to the point where you just can't any more, really just can't.   I'm just not sure that I can anymore.  I'm sick of being ignored. Literally.  How would you feel about that?  On top of losing your daughter...What can I say.

We have a memorial planned for when we get her headstone and I'd love people there.  To remember her and, god, just to remember that she was a person.  She was alive and she deserves remembrance of that